Life is about experience, through experience you learn and when you learn; you grow.
A question asked to 100 people could have different answer depending on one own experience.
A good question example was "What's the most important thing for you in a relationship?".
I asked around and some said trust, some said honesty, respect ... and more. When I asked them a little bit about the relationship that they had in the past, I realized that the reason why they came up with those conclusion was because they felt pain when their mate were dishonest, disrespectful, cheated on them...
I came up with this conclusion.
"What hurts, instruct."
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Blog post edited/re-posted on October 15, 2014