She'll Feel You're Trying to Understand Her When...

• you listen and can repeat back what she said.


• you don't try to "fix her problems" unless she specifically asks for a solution.


• you try to identify her feelings.


• you never dismiss her feelings, no matter how illogical they may seem to you.


• you say, "I appreciate your sharing that with me."


• you don't interrupt her whe she's trying to tell you how she feels.


• you apologize and admit you were wrong.


• you cut her some slack during her monthly cycle.


• you see something that needs to be done and you do it without a lot of hassle.


• you express appreciation for all she does: "Honey, I could never do your job."


• you pray with her and for her.

-Page 154 of "Love & Respect" by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs