- you let her vent her frustrations and hurts and don't get angry and close her off.
- you admit you are wrong and apologize by saying. "I'm sorry. Will you forgive me?"
- you understand her natural desire to negotiate, compromise, and defer, and you meet her halfway.
- you try to keep your relationship "up-to-date," resolving the unresolved and never saying, "Forget it."
- you forgive her for any wrongs she confesses.
- you never nurse bitterness and always reassure her of your love.
- you pray with her after a hurtful time.
-Page 164 of "Love & Respect" by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
No comments:
Post a Comment